Alright guys, we've taken all that we have heard from women this past year and distilled it into simple and foolproof gifts and acts of love. Choose from gifts that PAMPER her, TEASE her or RAVAGE her plus foreplay tips. You're welcome...
Alright guys, we’ve made this super easy for you! We have taken all that we have heard from women this past year and distilled it into simple and foolproof gifts and acts of love.
One thing we hear a lot from women is that they’re nervous that you will feel intimidated or insulted that she is curious about bringing certain accessories into the bedroom. She’s afraid that you’ll think it’s because you can’t please her enough. One of the most common questions we get asked is, “How do I bring this up without making him feel like he’s being replaced? Because that’s totally not the case. I just want us to play with these toys - they looks fun!"
On the contrary, you see, she wants to bring in these accessories because she wants to go on an adventure with you.
It actually has nothing to do with how good of a lover you are - in fact, you’d be an even better lover with these spice adding gifts of rawr. So now that we’re clear about that - get your creative juices going! There are lots of ways you can take your special lady on a holiday adventure.
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Just choose one of the below options and you’re set ;)
PAMPER HER: Make her feel like the Queen that she is
Perfect if she:
- Needs some help getting into the mood and “switching” her mind off
- Enjoys long strokes of touch
- Likes candles
Start off the evening by surprising her with a special piece of jewellery - the rose gold and stainless steel Vesper necklace is one of the first toys designed by a woman that looks good and feels good (we’ll get to the “feel” part later). Not only does it look great with most outfits, it is secretly knowing that she’s wearing naughtiness in plain sight that makes it so delicious.
Round out the evening by treating her to a massage. Light one of our soy based Petit Joujoux candles to set the mood - choose from something citrusy, vanilla, musky or spicy. When she’s ready, blow out the candle and drizzle the melted wax onto her back. That’s right - the wax melts into a warm (not burning) massage oil. It won’t burn - we promise. If you’re not sure about the warm wax, go for the Aphrodisiac 2 in 1 massage and lube - it doubles as a lubricant too. The sensual scent will lull her into the sexy mood. If you are travelling, get the Wanderlust travel kit version. Same sensual scent in travel friendly sizes. To top it off - remember the necklace? Time to take it out and tease her erogenous zones (tease only… do not insert!). Take your time and she’ll be cooing by the end of the evening.
Bonus: Need help with some massage moves? Check out the Melt: Massage for Couples series for the perfect add on.
TEASE HER: Do this, and you are the King of foreplay
Perfect if she:
- Enjoyed reading/watching Fifty Shades of Grey
- Has certain erogenous zones on her body that you know you can spend time teasing
- Sometimes likes it when you take charge in the bedroom
Surprise her with the Vibease or the Fifty Shade Love Egg. Before heading out for dinner, ask her to wear her gift in her knickers and you’ll get to tease her all through dinner. How? The Egg comes with a remote control and the Vibease can be controlled through the Vibease app!
Tip 1: Give her this gift the day before your dinner plans. Why? It’s part of the tease… the brain is one of our biggest sex organs and you’ve just planted plenty of naught thoughts to rev her up for 24 hours. It also gives you some time to set up the Vibease toy-app connection ahead of time.
Tip 2: It'll be tempting, but don’t go crazy with changing the vibration settings - it’s not a video game. The aim is to surprise her and use steady rhythm to drive her mad with lust in public.
Once you’re home, continue taking charge by blindfolding and tying her up with our soft and silky ties ups from LELO. With her sight removed, her senses will be heightened. Now, it’s all about sensations. Use our organic flavoured warming lube on her nipples and erogenous zones - it warms up when it’s licked and blown. So lick and blow, boys - all over her body. To top it off, you can also use a small drop of the Intense Clitoral Gel on her clitoris - it warms and tingles. Tease, get creative and make her wait. She’ll be begging by the end - and that’s just the start of the real play that’s coming!
RAVAGE HER: Go forth, go wild
Perfect if she:
- Enjoys both external and internal stimulation
- Enjoys G-Spot stimulation or wants to explore it
- Likes the thought of being caught in public
Similar to the Vibease or Fifty Shades Egg, the We-Vibe 4 Plus can be worn by her and remotely controlled by you. The twist is that it doubles stimulation by teasing both the G-Spot and the clitoris at the same time. Oh boy, yep. Once you’re home from dinner, it will be easier to continue to heighten her pleasure because you’ll have been arousing her through appetizer to dessert. Use the G-Spot Enhancer Gel to top it off. Not sure where to find that spot? Watch our video.
The great thing about the We-Vibe 4 Plus is that it can be worn during sex as well, giving you extra stimulation. However, if your natural fit is already quite tight, you may find this too constricting. To continue the double action during sex, you can switch to the Tenga Smart Ring - to be worn by you while providing extra clitoral stimulation. For a tingly surprise, use the organic sensation lubricant and you’ll send her over the edge.
As you see, all of our suggestions start outside the bedroom...
Note for the future: foreplay starts outside the bedroom (have fun with your imagination!)
...So make a reservation at your favourite dinner place. If this feels too complicated, you can always check out our “Top Ten Social Picks” and choose from what has been most popular with the hundreds of women who have come through our socials.
Enjoy and remember, in the end, have FUN. Take her on an adventure. Happy Holidays!
Have questions? Drop us a note and we'll be happy to brainstorm with you.