The ultimate naughty and nice sexy gift guide - for your lover, your friends and for yourself (because self care is just as important!). Happy holidays, lovelies xx
What to get, what to get… it’s that time of the year and you’re asking yourself - what would that special person like for the holidays? What would make him / her giggle with joy and melt with love?
We’ve put together a little guide for all that is naughty and nice. There is something for everyone - whether you are gifting to your lover, a friend or even - yourself (self care is so important!).
FOR A LOVER: Spice it up - gift yourself as the plaything
Start the spicy foreplay before you hit the bedroom with these fun remote controllable toys. Let your partner take control and secretly tease you in public. If your partner travels or you’re currently doing long distance - these will definitely keep the heat up despite the distance. Choose from the We-Vibe 4 Plus (if you want the cadillac), the Vibease (reliable and just as fun) or the Fifty Shades of Grey Egg (insert it and rawr).
Grab the Instruments of Pleasure kits for a fun play pack. It comes with a blindfold and easy items like a mini bullet or feather to tease.
Finally, top it off with a flavoured lubricant - a gift that says, “I’m going to lick, suck and blow you all over”
Bonus: Pair it with the Desire app - choose or create your own dare for your lover and you get points by completing each other’s dares. Who doesn't like a little dose of competition… let your imagination run wild ;)
FOR A FRIEND: Gift an orgasm - that’s what good friends do
We all have that one friend who pushes us to discover new boundaries. Think Samantha from Sex and the City. Be that friend for your girlfriends this holiday.
For the fashionista friend, definitely go with the rose gold and stainless steel Vesper Necklace. It’s eye catching and goes with any outfit. Plus, it’s like inviting her to join a secret club - only the vixens know what’s actually around her neck ;)
For the uninitiated and budding rose that hasn’t quite bloomed to her full sensual womanhood, introduce her to the Heart or Classique vibes. Designed by Rianne S, a lovely Dutch fashionista from Amsterdam, these vibes are the perfect beginner toys.
Lastly, all women need to take care of her pelvic floor muscle. Not only does it help with bladder control functions (ahem, child birth), it also intensifies orgasms. The kegel balls from LELO and Je Joue help with just that. It’s kind of like gifting yoga classes… but for her vagina ;)
FOR YOURSELF: Do it - all love starts with self love
It doesn’t matter if you’re single or attached, we all need a little self loving. In fact, studies show that when you take the time to love yourself, you are happier in other areas of your life too. Here are a few of our self love tips:
1. Get sensual with yourself
One of our favourite studies was one where a group of women was given a daily task of spending 5 extra minutes after her shower to slowly rub on her body lotion. She was to choose a scent that she liked and pay attention to her body as she applied the lotion. After a week, every woman in that group felt more sexy and relaxed. That is the power of self love.
Your homework for this holiday:
- Choose one of our organic massage oils and treat yourself after a bath/shower. People always think massages are for two, but we say F* that. Feel luscious and smell delicious - you’ll feel great.
- Don on our bondage inspired body jewellery and wear it over or under a black dress for the holiday party. Choose from the elegant Magnifique collection or the confident Desir collection. Strut your sexy self.
2. Explore, explore, explore
If we don’t know how to navigate our own bodies, how do we help someone else find our pleasure zones? Exploring our sexuality is a constant journey… our bodies change (duh) and so do what turns us on (and off). One pleasure zone we get asked about a lot is the G-Spot.
Not sure how to find it? Watch our video. Take your time and explore it.
For a versatile and trusty g-spot toy, check out the Uma. Its deep rumbly vibrations and curved design teases and hits that special spot.
Not sure what or how to explore? Check out OMGYes (you may have seen a video of Emma Watson talking about it pop up on your newsfeed) - a platform dedicated to "lifting the veil on women's sexual pleasure".
3. Turn on the mind, turn on those fantasies
For many women, getting the mind turned on is critical in getting aroused. A dirty thought, a delicious fantasy. That’s why we love the Vibease - yes we have recommended it as a lover's toy, but it is also amazing for solo play. The toy is controlled by the Vibease app… which comes with a vast library of short erotica audio stories. Here is the best part: each story comes already synced with the vibrations on the toy. So as the story reaches its climatic point… so will you!
So what will it be? Something naughty or something nice? (or both!)
Questions? Drop us a note and we'll be happy to brainstorm with you.